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Valentine’s Day is usually considered either the most romantic holiday or the most commercialized holiday. Both sides make excellent points. But while the debate over the virtues and vices of Valentine’s Day continues, the average person’s feelings towards the holiday correlate directly with that person’s dating prospects; a dateless Valentine’s Day is traditionally a very depressing one. However, this does not need to be the case, and there are many funs things to on Valentine’s Day even if you do not have a date.
If you find yourself without a date on Valentine’s Day, take solace in the fact that you are not alone. There are many, many people who are likewise between relationships. If you have lots of friends who are also finding themselves dateless, you should consider throwing an anti-Valentine’s Day party. These can be especially beneficial for people who have recently broken up with someone. During these parties, you can watch relationship-gone-wrong movies (think “Fatal Attraction”) that make you glad to be single. And because everyone, whether or not they are in a relationship, loves Valentine’s Day chocolates, you should be sure to stock up on heart-shaped truffle assortments and chocolate roses. There is no reason not to open a bottle of champagne, either. Or, if you miss your childhood Valentine’s Days when nobody had or was even allowed to have dates, you could hand out Valentine’s cards and conversation hearts.
Despite what you may have heard, it is actually legal to go out on Valentine’s Day without a date. If you are feeling a little self-conscious over your lack of a significant other, going out with at least one friend is a good idea. Unless you are especially fond of crowds and long waits, you probably want to avoid restaurants. Although some clubs, bars, movie theaters, coffee shops, and other places of entertainment might be a little busier than normal, these are definitely still fine options. Additionally, some clubs and bars host anti-Valentine’s Day events, which are perfect if you are worried about feeling lonely.
If none of these ideas appeal to you and you are still set on having a romantic evening, there are many ways to arrange it at the last minute. If you choose to go out on Valentine’s Day, you will doubtlessly encounter other people who are just as sad about being single as you. If you meet and like one of these people, the two of you can discuss you dateless despair over a cup of coffee. Many people are eager to set their commitment-free friends up on Valentine’s dates. While a blind date is always risky business, this is still a good option in you are dead set on having a date. Even if the date turns into a disaster, at least you will have a good Valentine’s Day nightmare story.
With or without a date, Valentine’s Day is just another day. Celebrate it or don’t celebrate it; just don’t get depressed over it. There will always be time for perfectly romantic Valentine’s Days in the future.
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